do you think 2nd relationship will work?

darliee

This guy named Matt broke up with me like 2 or 3 days ago. Because I kept on saying that he doesnt like me and he flirted with other girls lots. I showed him a picture of me sliting my wrist, which I thought didn't really helped -- i wasn't that kind of person who would do that. He said he's going to give me a second chance. But I got to make him like me more than he does now. He felt so sorry and bad about him dumping me. He sometimes ask if i like/love him still, i said yes. I asked him he said, sorta.

We decided that we will still hang out, hook-up and do stuffs we usually do(act like were still together). Me and him doesnt want anyone to know about us -- that he dumped me and were not going out. Everytime I bring up the good times we had, he said he feels bad and like s h i t. He said if he wanted me more than he does now, he might ask me out again.

But if he did, do you think I should say yes?
Do you think it'll work for us?
Do you think he's just using me?
What should I do?

alx · Posted: Tue Oct 07, 2008 4:15 pm Post subject:

He broke up with you because you were annoying and paranoid. Has this changed?

XD-bear · Posted: Wed Oct 08, 2008 7:42 pm Post subject:

You have to make him like you more??

thats not going to work

also you sound like a complete psyco

dont tell your boyfriend he doesnt like you... its RIDICULOUSLY annoying

and stop slitting your wrists you attention seeking loser/moron Smile

hope this helps, best of luck

dieselgirl31 · Member Age: 18 Joined: 25 Feb 2008 Posts: 19 Location: UK

slitting wrists, pushing him away by telling him he doesn't like you and then trying to pull him back again isn't exactly what guys sign up for when they get into a relationship with you (and i don't mean just you personally)If you really want him back you need to not be on his case all the time and take a step back sort yourself out, and if he comes looking for you then you know you've done good but if not then it's not the end of the world.
The worst thing you can do is tell a guy what he's thinking. He obviously likes you enough to suggest getting back together but what he's also trying to say is this is a chance to do it right. Take each step of the relationship as it comes and please please please don't keep slitting your wrists cutting yourself open is gonna make him walk away from you because he won't wanna have any part of you being destructive to yourself and it will also make you less attractive and less appealing for guys to wanna date you cos as bear has already said it makes you look a nutter.

alx · Posted: Fri Oct 10, 2008 9:18 pm Post subject:

Agrees

Gabriella · Regular Age: 17 Joined: 10 Nov 2008 Posts: 97

I think you should move on.

Obviously, it doesn't work.

Obviously, you don't like each other.