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dieselgirl31
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 Posted: Mon Sep 29, 2008 10:24 am Post subject: Foreplay is a turn on but sex is a turn off? |
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Ok so i've been seeing this guy for a little while and its been going really really well but amongst all this bliss there's on problem, foreplay is fine he gets a erection no problem so then we're ready to have sex and all of a sudden its gone, he's lost his erection and can't get it back. He gets really annoyed and embarrassed about it and that it only happens if he's about to have sex with someone new. How do we get round this? am i doing something wrong?
Cheers
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XD-bear
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| Posted: Mon Sep 29, 2008 9:02 pm Post subject: |
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Its not physical since he can get an erection in the 1st place
That means its mental
stress and diet can have their effects- and the more frustrated he gets that it wont happen and the more you both (without meaning to of course) put pressure on him to perform... the less likely its going to be that he'll overcome it
He clearly feels pressure from you... hes probably not ready either, the important thing is just to take it in your stride, its not that hes not attracted to you and its not his fault either
just relax and hopefully in time it will just happen
In the mean time, research with the Trey/Charlotte relationship in Sex in the City |
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Tamonten
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| Posted: Wed Oct 01, 2008 9:34 pm Post subject: |
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| He's probably a pussy who is too scared to have sex with girls. |
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alx
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| Posted: Sun Oct 05, 2008 5:31 pm Post subject: |
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| Find some exercises to strengthen your pelvic floor, and give him something to drink before you suduce him (yes to alchol, but not too much) |
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Tamonten
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| Posted: Sun Oct 05, 2008 8:34 pm Post subject: |
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| MAYBE YOUR BOYFIRND GETS TURNED OFF BY YOUR FACE WHEN YOU HAVE SEX BECAUSE WHEN YOURE SUCKING HIM OFF HE SOESNT HAVE TO LOOK AT YOU LOLOLOL |
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dieselgirl31
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| Posted: Fri Oct 10, 2008 9:49 am Post subject: |
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Gee thanx Tamonten totally helpful tell me is that why you're likely to still be a virgin
Thanx alx & Bear x |
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alx
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| Posted: Sat Oct 11, 2008 6:48 pm Post subject: |
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| dieselgirl31 wrote: | Gee thanx Tamonten totally helpful tell me is that why you're likely to still be a virgin
Thanx alx & Bear x |
 Tamo is a porn star |
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XD-bear
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| dieselgirl31 wrote: | | Thanx alx & Bear x |
You're welcome  |
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Tamonten
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| Posted: Sun Oct 12, 2008 10:49 am Post subject: |
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| dieselgirl31 wrote: | Gee thanx Tamonten totally helpful tell me is that why you're likely to still be a virgin
Thanx alx & Bear x |
VEry accurate evaluation of me there. Because I made a drunken comment on an internet forum that had no helpful relevance to the thread, I must be a virgin still, yeah? |
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alx
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| Tamonten wrote: | | dieselgirl31 wrote: | Gee thanx Tamonten totally helpful tell me is that why you're likely to still be a virgin
Thanx alx & Bear x |
VEry accurate evaluation of me there. Because I made a drunken comment on an internet forum that had no helpful relevance to the thread, I must be a virgin still, yeah? |
Yes, of cause. We all know that silly people who go out and get drunk in bars are the least likely of all of us to have sexual relations. |
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Tamonten
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| Posted: Sun Oct 12, 2008 11:15 am Post subject: |
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Especially people in a decent, healthy relationship where physical satisfaction is equally as important as emotional satisfaction.
Oh my! That statement is rather contradictory! Guess your thorough analyzation of my character was wrong, dieselgirl31. |
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dieselgirl31
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| lol Tamo is it a quest of yours to try and outsmart everyone? |
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alx
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| dieselgirl31 wrote: | | lol Tamo is it a quest of yours to try and outsmart everyone? |
Is it the quest of every girl over 18 to patronize everyone you can?
Now slowly put down the granade, and step away. |
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dieselgirl31
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| Posted: Sun Oct 12, 2008 9:50 pm Post subject: |
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| alx wrote: | | Now slowly put down the granade, and step away. |
*takes 3 steps back* |
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Tamonten
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| Posted: Mon Oct 13, 2008 7:37 am Post subject: |
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| dieselgirl31 wrote: | | alx wrote: | | Now slowly put down the granade, and step away. |
*takes 3 steps back* |
Pawn. |
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