i like guys but i have a girlfriend...

luvme4me525

haha. yeah. well i'm bi; or bi-curious, i'm still working that part out. i've dated mostly guys, but now i'm dating my best friend who happens to be a girl. we've been together for about a month now. and it's weird. like i love being with her, but its not the same, you know. like i really miss having a guy around. i miss that security. but i don't miss the fights i usually have with my boyfriends. or the fact that they usually never wanna really talk. i love being with Lakin for the most part because she's my best friend. i mean i can tell her everything, and she really listens. and i trust her, which is hard for me to do sometimes.

but like i said, i miss having a guy around. i'm not sure what i should do, or if i should tell her, or what. we always promised we'd be best friend, no matter what. but i mean its not like i can be with her forever. nothing is the same with a girl. and i'm still more attracted to guys than girls, so idk.

help?

russianbaby7 · Posted: Tue Aug 12, 2008 2:12 am Post subject:

well. i can see where ur comin from.

guys have a certain feeling bt u dnt like da fights or them nt wanting 2 open up n talk. like u said ur goin 2 be best friendsw. so u should always tell her hats on her ind. is she bi like you or just lesbian???

XD-bear · Posted: Tue Aug 12, 2008 10:32 pm Post subject:

you should be honest

go out with a guy i think

at least for a while

luvme4me525 · Posted: Thu Aug 14, 2008 12:02 am Post subject:

russianbaby7 · Posted: Fri Aug 15, 2008 3:47 am Post subject:

0kay if shes bi den she will understand. cuz she probly feels da same way cuz pussy cant feel in da sexual desires of a dick in u. ur fina need pipe in ur life.

yall can still date bt ur fina need a man der 2.

XD-bear · Posted: Fri Aug 15, 2008 8:51 pm Post subject:

... wow.... its been a long time since we had anyone that stupid on the wrd... but there it is, brings back memories i guess Very Happy

alx · Posted: Fri Aug 15, 2008 9:34 pm Post subject:

Yes, good times.

I think I still have the noob shears here somewhere, still caked in blood and rust.

luvme4me525 · Posted: Sat Aug 16, 2008 8:53 pm Post subject:

okay well i said something to her about it. and she said "okay" and i asked if she was mad and she said she wasn't. never said anything about it after that. :/ and now that school's started back she's kinda clingy at school. its like if she thinks someone is looking at me she'll grab my hand/arm and be like "she's mine". :S do you think she's scared to lose me to a guy or something? cuz she was never like that before i said i missed having a guy.

...

and now i actually am talking to a guy. his name is James. he's really sweet and really easy to talk to. he knows about Lakin and he's like whatever about it. he still wants to hang out and whatnot. but i haven't told her about him cuz i don't want her getting mad or jealous or whatever...

alx · Posted: Sat Aug 16, 2008 9:27 pm Post subject:

Why don't you ask her?

Maybe you need a hetro acting gay friend.

XD-bear · Posted: Mon Aug 18, 2008 12:15 am Post subject:

i think you should break up with her

she should want to talk to you if she really cared about your happiness

its not right that she avoids it

and maybe wait a while before going out with the new guy, give it some time at least

russianbaby7 · Posted: Wed Sep 03, 2008 2:15 am Post subject:

u shuld talk 2 ha about it. like u said she ur best friend. n she shuld understand. now dat skewls baq every1 wants every1 2 kno who der dating so dey kno not 2 try n get with dem. if u dnt like da fact dat shes so clingy let ha kno. otherwise shes going o keep doin it. dnt rush things with da guy also. let life takes it course. she mite be okay with him bt it will ketch her off guard.