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confused&inlove
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 Posted: Sat Aug 09, 2008 4:38 pm Post subject: Advice needed. |
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| ok, heres the problem. me and my gf were alone and bored,plus kinda horny. we decided to try something new. i had never fingered someone b4,so this would be my first time doing it b4. she said that i was amazing althought i was nervous as hell, she was as relaxed as can be. can anyone give me advice on how 2 not get so nervous when it comes to fingering someone? |
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XD-bear
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| Posted: Mon Aug 11, 2008 1:24 am Post subject: |
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just get lost in the moment really
focous on kissing her neck and stuff like that
she clearly likes it
but if your not comfortable really your not ready to do it  |
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alx
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| Posted: Mon Aug 11, 2008 8:34 pm Post subject: |
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Doing stuff with new partners normaly makes people nervous. With sex your sex drive and the site of your partner naked normaly sorts things out, but with masterbation you are relying on the other person to be enjoying it, and don't have anything else to focus on.
My advice is to get her to tell you exactly what feels good, and what doesn't. A little dutch curage might be good as well, but not to much or you'll be slow and to be honest crap at anything sexual. You should see my girlfriend after three glasses of wine, usless.
Good luck. |
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creu
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| Posted: Sun Nov 30, 2008 10:37 am Post subject: |
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| after a few times you'll get used to it, first times are always a bit strange |
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