can you give me some addvice please..... thank u

chelseafc12 · rawwww Age: 15 Joined: 30 Nov 2007 Posts: 219

hey, this might sound rather stupid i have a little sister of 13 years old and i am 15 and she beats living day lights out of me today she threw a cup of tea over me. then wacked on the back with a remote control also just keeps punching me over the head and the only reson she done this is because i dident play snakes and laders with her my dad was out he can only do things when he is at home and now thats not often so i have to take care of my younger sister more often. as well then i pushed her outa way. and she blamed everything on me saying i was trying to kill her. so i just went to my room scared cause she was being out ragous. i need help i do not know wat to do anymore. ( sorry about my spelling )

XD-bear · Posted: Wed Jan 23, 2008 1:40 am Post subject:

sounds like a younger sister alright... you just need to show her that that kind of behavior is not acceptable... dont push her thats reinforcing it, walk away and pay no attention to her when she does it

sounds like shes doing it for attention too so maybe spending a little more time with her might help?

chelseafc12 · rawwww Age: 15 Joined: 30 Nov 2007 Posts: 219

that is one thing i try to do spend time but when i do and if i beat her at it she goes off on one, so i decided not to beat her at things and shes all happy. and as well the next day when she knows she has hurt me shes all lil miss nicey so i just play along with her so i dont get hurt no more. cause she has special needs and has a mental age of 9/10 year old i dont know if its to do with that, but sometimes she gets really tough with me and i cant controll her so i just let her beat crap out of me and she dosent stop so i just let her do it. As well im thinkinng of telling her learning support unit maybe she has some sort of anger troubels, she gets bullied at school also so maybe she takes it out on me. i really dont know.

XD-bear · Posted: Wed Jan 23, 2008 1:10 pm Post subject:

i think thats a good idea

is she capable of actually hurting you or causing damage or bruising?
if so then more serious actions need to be put into place

chelseafc12 · rawwww Age: 15 Joined: 30 Nov 2007 Posts: 219

yea i have more than bruising i have scars and stuff from were she has litarrally threw me across floor and ive got cuts and stuff on me. its hard to keep controll of some one who can just be nice and then flip and be so mean and cause so much pain towards me.

XD-bear · Posted: Wed Jan 23, 2008 9:45 pm Post subject:

you need professional help and so does she!

this isnt right and needs to be stopped!!!!!

chelseafc12 · rawwww Age: 15 Joined: 30 Nov 2007 Posts: 219

okay. but i have like counceling but that doesent help.

XD-bear · Posted: Thu Jan 24, 2008 6:29 pm Post subject:

i meant physical help

you cant be in charge of her if you cant control her and shes a danger to your safety

alx · Posted: Thu Jan 24, 2008 8:21 pm Post subject:

You shouldn't be left with her if you arn't physicaly able to deal with her.

chelseafc12 · rawwww Age: 15 Joined: 30 Nov 2007 Posts: 219

ino but its my Job as a yung carer

alx · Posted: Fri Jan 25, 2008 9:02 pm Post subject:

So? If you are being beaten up you shouldn't be exposed to her.

XD-bear · Posted: Fri Jan 25, 2008 9:05 pm Post subject:

true!

thats not right
you cant care for someone you cant actually care for

Gabriella · Regular Age: 17 Joined: 10 Nov 2008 Posts: 97

Typical younger sister. Don't let her get the best of you. Ignore her when she's talking nonsense and pretend like it's not bothering you.

I learned to block out the things my brother says that usually hurt me.

Although she's your little sister, keep in mind that you love her no matter what she does. And plus, depending on her age, she could just be in a phase. I can guarantee everyone was just as horrendous.