HOW DO U FORGET THE ONE U LUFF??

gi$$el_13 · Posted: Sat Jun 16, 2007 4:25 am Post subject: HOW DO U FORGET THE ONE U LUFF??

im need for advice bc i have tryed my best to forget this guy but no matter how hard i try i just cant. u know that theres this saying " U CANT FORGET UR FIRST TRUE LUFF" well i think this is it. we have been dating for like a year and 8 months if u count the times we broke up. i have never felt this strong towards anyone but the saddest thing is that my friends tell me that hes a player and that maybe hes just messing with my feelings Brick wall

. and like we do talk on the phone and he makes me laugh like even when hes not trying. i have cryed for this guy like so many times Sad

so i would like really really appreciate it if u guys could give me advice on how to move on bc no matter how hard i try i always look at the past

Guest · Posted: Sat Jun 16, 2007 12:13 pm Post subject:

Start making plans and goals for yourself. Like volunteer at a local place and hang out with friends. If it is really bad, consider cutting contact for a short period of time. Also start looking at other guys and try to not compare them.

megamanexe169 · Posted: Sat Jun 16, 2007 8:45 pm Post subject:

you can't forget a love...u can only make it a distant memory...no matter what you will always member your love especially if ur love was really close to you...you may keep your love locked sumwhere in your mind...but eventually something will trigger you to remember your love from time to time...

barbydoll · Rookie Age: 16 Joined: 19 Jun 2007 Posts: 5 Location: 305

i agree with the both replies. you can't really forget true love. i used to like a guy for about 4 years. i've known him for 6. and i have a boyfriend now, that i love more than anyone, but when i saw the old guy a few days ago, i fliped a little. he truly was my first love, and i still feel something seeing him, but i know it is'nt meant to be, and i love my bf, so i distanced myself from him. its working pretty well. just cut off contact, little by little. when he wants to talk say you're busy. if he wants to go out, you already have plans. and meeting new peoples doesn't hurt either Very Happy

but, on the other hand, when i first started liking my bf, he was off limits. two of my bffs liked him, alot. so i tired cutting off contact with him, but it didn't work since my bff which is a boy is his bff and they go everywhere together so yeah... i would always tell myself that you couldn'y like someone your friends liked. once he told me that if i didn't like anyone my friends liked, then i would never like anyone because i had a lot of friends. he liked me when he told me this, and knew my friends liked him at the time. but i wouldn't allow myself to see him as anything other than a friend. but it didn't work out that way, sometimes if you love someone enough, you can't forget them no matter how hard you try. so you just got to roll with it and whatever happens happens. best of luck...
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alx · Wanker Age: 16 Joined: 05 Nov 2006 Posts: 3301

You talk to much.

Guest · Posted: Wed Jun 20, 2007 6:07 pm Post subject:

I disagree with always loving a person. People change and people mature. Jamison and I recently had a talk about it and we both remember loving several of our exes, but neither one of us still loves them. It takes time and you won't be able to do it overnight.

Something that could be helpful is make up a list of why the person is an ex. That could always help dispel the "rose-tinted" glasses outlook on him and your relationship.

XD-bear · Posted: Fri Jun 22, 2007 11:26 pm Post subject:

you stop posting stuf about them
or at least spell love as love not luff

cut him out of your life!
just force youreself to block him out
eventually youll get over him