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Poet89
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 Posted: Tue May 29, 2007 10:35 pm Post subject: 2 guys 1 BIG problem HELP!!!! |
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Guy#1 21yrs and is going through a divorce even now that I'm w/ him he still has that as his statues. I have been in a relationship with him for awhile through the internet we have a few things incommon but there r some things I am not comfortable with 1)he drinks and smokes 2)he doesn't have a job.Which I swear to got he told me he did. 3) he still talks to his x which is taring me up.
Guy#2 16yrs is an xbf that I am still good friends w/ but I'm staring to have deeper feelings for him even though he broke up w/ me 3yrs ago i'd be willing to for give him. He is single. |
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Krav Lukin Volder
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| Posted: Wed May 30, 2007 1:39 am Post subject: |
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What about option 3?
Someone else. Or no one at all.
Neither of them sound like very good choices, especially the 21 year old... |
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alx
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| Posted: Wed May 30, 2007 10:23 am Post subject: |
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| I'm sorry, but I doubt even the eternal teen wisdom of the wrd can get you out of that mess. |
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perfectly._.imperfect
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| Posted: Wed May 30, 2007 5:40 pm Post subject: |
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| number 2 or better yet..wait until someone much better comes along. it hurts to let people go, but the 21-year old just sounds like an unstable lazy player, so get rid of him. the 16-year old sounds much better, though i'm sure there is someone out there a million times better than either of these two... |
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Hopper17041993
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| Posted: Thu May 31, 2007 11:27 am Post subject: |
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Okay hunny; seriously, look at this logically. Option one: the 21 yr old.
He doesn't have a job, is divorcing someone at TWENTY-ONE, that tells you he isn't a thinker!Therefore useless in a relationship(TRUST ME!).
Option two: The 16 yr old.
He's more likely to make you happy, I've seen many in your position and the older one abandons you anyhow, (so if you're girly girl you'll end up crying your eyes out anyway) but it will be easier to handle if you go for the 16 yr old.
I know this is harsh but its true, I'm sorry if I pissed you off or anything else but enlightened you, it wasn't my intention. |
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sxy_butterfly
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| Posted: Fri Jun 01, 2007 9:30 pm Post subject: |
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| neither, or the 2nd 1 at least u no u cn trust him |
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Poet89
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| Posted: Sat Jun 02, 2007 10:34 pm Post subject: Thanks alot!!!! |
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never mind this
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Poet89
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| Posted: Sat Jun 02, 2007 10:38 pm Post subject: |
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Also I want to thank the rest of you. You all were really helpful and fast. That's just what I needed.
Poet89 |
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