do you ever feel like ....

DiPants · Posted: Thu Mar 08, 2007 5:28 am Post subject: do you ever feel like ....

people would be better off if you weren't here.
that you're just watching yourself die, you want to do something, but you'd rather just see.

honestly. i can't take this

Tamonten · Posted: Thu Mar 08, 2007 7:52 am Post subject:

Jerrica · Posted: Thu Mar 08, 2007 9:12 am Post subject:

yea but then I make myself think of all the positive things in my life and all the great things that I can accomplish if I really want to. that usually works

HangingInThere · Posted: Thu Mar 08, 2007 3:12 pm Post subject:

Yeah.. I get that feeling a lot.

XD-bear · Posted: Thu Mar 08, 2007 5:23 pm Post subject:

sometimes but not usualy with my close friends... used to feel like that about certain members of my family and still do sometimes but its ok a lot of the time too.

andurmyeffect · Member Age: 17 Joined: 18 Feb 2007 Posts: 24

yes always but that comes and goes.
just understand that people do need you and if you weren't here it would make things worse.
they would feel sad and not happy.

lynnxxangel · Posted: Thu Mar 15, 2007 5:40 am Post subject:

yea, a lot actually.
but when you get like that you should think about how many people care about you and the people that are there for you!

MenyAlèn · Posted: Sat Mar 17, 2007 2:14 pm Post subject:

yes, a lot at the moment... the thing is when i try to do anything about it, like thinking about people who do love me, i just cry harder.... and yes ,as you say ,though i wish at times i could just do something to feel better i just feel as though i don't have the strength and would rather just watch... even encourage it so that any hurt could just end. the thing is one must just hold on and seeing a psychologist could help or at least just talking, to people or at least expressing yourself by writing, or music....

One Lucky Girl · Posted: Thu Apr 05, 2007 6:20 pm Post subject:

yeah , i get that feelong alot , especialy these days .

Recoil · Posted: Thu Apr 05, 2007 6:36 pm Post subject:

I get that feeling quite often. It comes and goes in waves, but it's never entirely gone. Then I think about how much I'd be hurting my friends and family if I killed myself, and I don't want that to happen...

krzykool182 · Regular Age: 16 Joined: 21 Apr 2007 Posts: 135

yeah that happens to me a lot...like what would it be like if i ween't around anymore?and aren't i just bringing everyone down?u know stuff like that, right? Confused

well i feel that way all the time, but I'm not going to kill myself over that...I'm here and i won't leave until i absolutely have 2 Smile

. I might do some stupid things but NEVER suicide...its just not the way 2 go...i hope everything turns out ok.if that's what u meant i mean...

alx · Wanker Age: 16 Joined: 05 Nov 2006 Posts: 3301

We all feel that way sometimes.

You need a greater goal, something long term and more important than everything, if you die you fail and your not going to let that happern.

My long term plan is this.

1. Get very very rich.
2. Find a LEDC that I like.
3. Use my vast fortune to build up the economy and don't stop till you have at least doubled the average income.

Its far feched but but thats my personal one, yours should be tailered to you.

LeanOnMe · Member Age: 21 Joined: 29 Apr 2007 Posts: 22

I feel like ppl would be better off without me sometimes, but then I feel selfish after thinking it because I know for a fact that there are people that love me and they would hurt if I weren't here. But I still get that way sometimes, like all I ever do is create more problems for them than I'm worth...I don't know how to completely stop thinking that way every once in a while though. I just kind of force myself to think positively. And for the record I am certainly not suicidal. It bothers me when ppl say that every depressed teen is going to kill themselves. For me it's probably just hormones and it'll just come and go.

Any advice on how to relieve this feeling,though?

sxy_butterfly · Posted: Fri Jun 01, 2007 9:04 pm Post subject:

yes
then i remember how much pain i would cause them if i went