| View previous topic :: View next topic |
| What's the right age to have a kid? |
| 13 and under |
|
0% |
[ 0 ] |
| 14-16 |
|
5% |
[ 1 ] |
| 17-20 |
|
11% |
[ 2 ] |
| 21- up |
|
82% |
[ 14 ] |
|
| Total Votes : 17 |
|
| Author |
Message |
Guest
|
 Posted: Thu Apr 06, 2006 11:05 pm Post subject: |
 |
|
| Are you your cousin? I don't know you so I don't know how you would handle the stress of school and a baby. |
|
| Back to top |
|
 |
*Mental*
If you could only see: Tonic
Age: 16
Joined: 25 Feb 2006
Posts: 677
Location: pointless
|
| Posted: Thu Apr 06, 2006 11:19 pm Post subject: |
|
|
I've already handled the stress of school and a baby. The only different thing is that it wasn't mine,it was my step-mom's and I had to take care of it. I fed it and bathed it and everything and I even put school on hold for at least a month so it would have someone there. B/c it's mom wouldn't take it to daycare and she worked all the time. She left it a thome for hours on end and I knew that it wasn't good for the baby so I ddn't go to school and I stayed home and took care of the baby.
I'm not trying to be rude I'm just saying that I know what it's like and I know what you mean and I respect your comment. |
|
| Back to top |
|
|
Guest
|
| Posted: Thu Apr 06, 2006 11:25 pm Post subject: |
|
|
Except it's not legal to let a 13-year-old stay at home for a child that's not hers or leave the baby home alone for hours.
The biggest worry would be you regretting that you didn't put off having children because you won't be able to do everything that teenagers do. Then there would be the question of whether or not you'd be able to discipline the child effective. Not many teenagers can. |
|
| Back to top |
|
|
| Sponsored Links |
|
|
*Mental*
If you could only see: Tonic
Age: 16
Joined: 25 Feb 2006
Posts: 677
Location: pointless
|
| Posted: Thu Apr 06, 2006 11:46 pm Post subject: |
|
|
I realize that it wasn't legal but I was scared for the baby, I mean it couldn't take care of itself.
I understand what you're saying but I have had 6 little brothers and sisters and i have had to take care of all of them. I'm not quite sure if could disipline my own kid. That swhat I would like to know. |
|
| Back to top |
|
|
*Mental*
If you could only see: Tonic
Age: 16
Joined: 25 Feb 2006
Posts: 677
Location: pointless
|
| Posted: Fri Apr 07, 2006 2:11 am Post subject: |
|
|
I officially don't care about this post anymore!
My b/f and I just spent and hour on the phone b/c he broke up with me. He didn't even tell me why. All I know is that he doesn't wanna see me anymore so I don't have to care about having a kid anymore.
Sorry I wasted your time Everybody! |
|
| Back to top |
|
|
*Mental*
If you could only see: Tonic
Age: 16
Joined: 25 Feb 2006
Posts: 677
Location: pointless
|
| Posted: Fri Apr 07, 2006 7:50 pm Post subject: |
|
|
| My world studies teacher listens to a lot of music and he usually has it playing b4 school starts. He was listening to Rascall Flatts today and the song "WHat hurts the most" was on and I was listening and it made me cry. I walked out of class and he came after em but I couldn't tall him about my ex-bf or Steven or anything. I had one of the worst days ever. |
|
| Back to top |
|
|
DarkSpiritsHauntMe
Teenwrd Addict
Age: 15
Joined: 15 Jan 2006
Posts: 964
|
| Posted: Sat Apr 08, 2006 12:09 am Post subject: |
|
|
deleted by poster.
Last edited by DarkSpiritsHauntMe on Mon Aug 11, 2008 9:24 pm; edited 1 time in total |
|
| Back to top |
|
|
*Mental*
If you could only see: Tonic
Age: 16
Joined: 25 Feb 2006
Posts: 677
Location: pointless
|
| Posted: Sat Apr 08, 2006 12:42 am Post subject: |
|
|
| It's so annoying! I mean isn't it th emother's job to take care of their kid but I ended up doing it. |
|
| Back to top |
|
|
Guest
|
| Posted: Sat Apr 08, 2006 2:29 am Post subject: |
|
|
| To be honest, there is a point where you should ask yourself if it's fair and if it's the best thing for you to take care of another child. Then, if you view it as not fair, consider calling child services. They typically make an effort to keep a family together. |
|
| Back to top |
|
|
*Mental*
If you could only see: Tonic
Age: 16
Joined: 25 Feb 2006
Posts: 677
Location: pointless
|
| Posted: Sun Apr 09, 2006 5:59 pm Post subject: |
|
|
| I don't wanna have anything to do with my bf b/c we did something that i'm not proud of. I saw him yesterday and i'll just put it this way. He's not mad at me anymore. |
|
| Back to top |
|
|
sexie_dixie
yee
Age: 20
Joined: 24 Jan 2006
Posts: 94
Location: weimar tx
|
| Posted: Mon Apr 10, 2006 7:07 pm Post subject: |
|
|
| Asriya wrote: | | Are you your cousin? I don't know you so I don't know how you would handle the stress of school and a baby. |
i dont have kids, and at this time in my life i dont want them. but my best firend is a single mother at 17 and has a baby boy, and she is having the hardest time right now trying to go to school and take care of the baby. that is why i said that.
no me and *mental* are not cuz'z, i dont even know who she is.
*mental* -- sorry to hear about you and your b/f. but i hope things get better, and sorry your step mom, is a B**ch and leaves her kid wtih you that is messed up, your 14 your should be at school with your buds and learnign shit. i hope everything gets better, and i hope you reconsider your desicon on having a kid right now. |
|
| Back to top |
|
|
*Mental*
If you could only see: Tonic
Age: 16
Joined: 25 Feb 2006
Posts: 677
Location: pointless
|
| Posted: Mon Apr 10, 2006 7:31 pm Post subject: |
|
|
| not only can I not have a kid now but my step-mom and my dad got divorced two years ago and i'm still taking care of her kid. I mean I love Jacob so much but it's hard I mean he's not living with me but he lives with me in the summer. And i'm not gonna be home much this summer so I don't exactly know what i'm gonna do with him. I can't ake him back to Australia with me. I think that he's going to stay with my aunt until I get back. I'm only gonna be there for 18 days. |
|
| Back to top |
|
|
sexie_dixie
yee
Age: 20
Joined: 24 Jan 2006
Posts: 94
Location: weimar tx
|
| Posted: Mon Apr 10, 2006 7:33 pm Post subject: |
|
|
| so you decided not to have a kid? that is great if you did. i mean you would miss out on so much if did want to have one!!! |
|
| Back to top |
|
|
*Mental*
If you could only see: Tonic
Age: 16
Joined: 25 Feb 2006
Posts: 677
Location: pointless
|
| Posted: Mon Apr 10, 2006 7:39 pm Post subject: |
|
|
| I do wanna have one but not now. I think that Jacob's hard enough to handle and I don't need another one making me pull my hair out. Hypathetically! |
|
| Back to top |
|
|
sexie_dixie
yee
Age: 20
Joined: 24 Jan 2006
Posts: 94
Location: weimar tx
|
| Posted: Tue Apr 18, 2006 7:20 pm Post subject: |
|
|
| lol. |
|
| Back to top |
|
|
|
