Right age to have a kid

*Mental* · Posted: Sat Apr 01, 2006 12:32 am Post subject: Right age to have a kid

I'm 13 and I really want kids b/c I love them a lot. I have to wait until I'm 15 but after that it's my choice. What do you think that I should do?

megamanexe169 · Posted: Sat Apr 01, 2006 12:40 am Post subject:

wait after u finish school...u will hate kids if ur young when u have them...

*Mental* · Posted: Sat Apr 01, 2006 1:32 am Post subject:

I don't wanna have to wait. I don't wanna be old when my kids are teenagers either. I'm thinking of having a kid when I turn 16 and my b/f thinks that's a good idea.

Guest · Posted: Sat Apr 01, 2006 4:16 am Post subject:

Generally you can't get a job unless you have a college degree and I'd wait until I had a little bit more finicial stability. Also, it is possible, but it is a lot harder to deal with college while having to raise a child.

A teacher did bring up an interesting point. It tends to be easier to notice the children of the parents that got pregnant in their teenage years. I know that's not always the case, but about 80% of the time you can tell.

*Mental* · Posted: Sat Apr 01, 2006 5:27 am Post subject:

I know that most people my age have no money or at least not alot and don't have a college degree. I on the other hand have a good money situation and so does my bf and we both have good jobs and We both have one of the top grades in our class. I am going out of the country with a group of intelligent and talented kids. I also am trying to get my uncle's and mine sorta angent to get me another gig shoot whatever you wanna call it. We are ready for kids and we've talked it through and we're both on the same page about the situation.

Guest · Posted: Sun Apr 02, 2006 12:02 am Post subject:

How much do you make a year? How much does he make a year? Generally, if you're going to college, that money will disappear really fast. Also, if it's a photo shoot, well, you won't be able to model for about nine months as you have the kid and get back itno shape.

thepenguin · Posted: Sun Apr 02, 2006 6:55 am Post subject:

ur still too young though, plus being anxious isnt the right reason to have a child, and it makes the relationship alot harder

Guest · Posted: Sun Apr 02, 2006 5:35 pm Post subject:

13 and under
0% [ 0 ]
14-16
0% [ 0 ]
17-20
25% [ 1 ]
21- up
75% [ 3 ]

Ask anyone who is 27 if they are the same person that they were at the age of 13, 14, 17, and 21. Often, they will talk about how they were immature.

*Mental* · Posted: Sun Apr 02, 2006 6:29 pm Post subject:

I make about roughly 15,000 a year and he makes about the same. My agent is getting me a job singing, I've sang in many places an dhe wants me to do some modeling but i'm not quite sure about that. The modeling thing is for normal girls the size the height everything. Not like really tall and so skinny that it's scary. The prob is that if I wanna do that I have to gain some more weight b/c i'm not the normal size of someone my age. He wants me to do that kid/teen american Idol but I don't think i'm good enough.

*Mental* · Posted: Mon Apr 03, 2006 7:33 pm Post subject:

My br played an april fool's joke on my friend saying that I was pregnant and he told her that he was kidding. Well she told my other friend and I was ok with that and we were just kiddig around among each other saying that I was pregnant and my friend Brad said kept hitting me in the stomach today. Well we were talking about it today and some people heard and now that entire 7th grade thinks I'm pregnant. And guess what I'm due in January,LOL.NOT REALLY

thepenguin · Posted: Tue Apr 04, 2006 5:46 pm Post subject:

what i wonder is how u can manage a modeling career, what with all ur marks on your arms and hands and head.... ur obviously unstable, and u think u can raise a kid?

*Mental* · Posted: Tue Apr 04, 2006 7:17 pm Post subject:

I'm not freaking unstable for on thing!
Another is that i'm not modeling right now and even if I did it doesn't matter. That's why they made makeup. But i don't have any scars on my head. I have them on my arms and on my legs. MOst of them on my legs were from being hit and pushed down steps by my ex-step-mother. Have you ever raised a kid? I pretty much have. My dad's 2nd wife had a baby when they got married. It was so tiny and fragile and it's mom didn't even care about it. I took care of it all the tima I even put school on hold just so Ii could make sure that it was ok. The mother went to work when the baby was too young to even walk or for that matter pretty much do anything on it's own. When I was in foster care I always took care of the babies b/c I was the oldest there and i know how to take care and feed and love a baby so don't even accuse me of not being stable enough to take care of a child of any age!

Guest · Posted: Tue Apr 04, 2006 7:21 pm Post subject:

He was probably referring to some of your topics that you've started. Judging whether or not a person should have a kid based on what they put on the internet isn't the best way, but no one really knows anyone in real life.

*Mental* · Posted: Tue Apr 04, 2006 7:26 pm Post subject:

I don't care. He called me unstable and I consider that an insult.

sexie_dixie · Posted: Tue Apr 04, 2006 7:27 pm Post subject: Re: Right age to have a kid