my bf

love expert · Posted: Mon Nov 03, 2008 9:44 am Post subject: my bf

i have a problem iv bn living wif mi current fiance for abt 8 months now n im getting married soon but he works night shieft n his never realli around sometimes i pretend like everything ok wen its not i kno his losing his attection to me cos i can feel it but i dont wanna lose him bcos i realli love him even tho we fight i care for him

Sonny Corleone · Posted: Mon Nov 03, 2008 11:26 am Post subject:

Married at seventeen? That's a big step. =\ Are you sure you're ready for something like this? Lol.

love expert · Posted: Mon Nov 03, 2008 11:37 am Post subject:

im pretty sure im ready

XD-bear · Posted: Mon Nov 03, 2008 11:08 pm Post subject:

pretty sure doesnt really cut it on forever kinda deals

i suggest you post-pone this engagement and have a talk with him

if his attention is waning now... then whats it going to be like 20 years from now

if you really care about him youll do this for him if not yourself

you owe it to him to act unselfishly here

Tamonten · Posted: Tue Nov 04, 2008 4:53 pm Post subject:

I think it's funny how someone with the username 'love expert' is asking for relationship advice. LOL!

alx · Wanker Age: 16 Joined: 05 Nov 2006 Posts: 3301

That was also my reaction, however I didn't lol.

Sonny Corleone · Posted: Wed Nov 05, 2008 12:22 am Post subject:

It's not that lolworthy.

XD-bear · Posted: Sat Nov 08, 2008 3:33 pm Post subject:

Gabriella · Regular Age: 17 Joined: 10 Nov 2008 Posts: 97

First of all, I'd be nice of you to speak less chat speak so I can understand what you're trying to say.

Second, I think it's a bit young for you to be married at 17.

Probably should be in your senior year at high school or at least at college.

kaylar28 · Member Age: 16 Joined: 24 Aug 2007 Posts: 13

alx · Wanker Age: 16 Joined: 05 Nov 2006 Posts: 3301

However kaylar is mearly expressing personal opinion. Getting married may be the thing you want to do.
How other people see it is irrelivent in the end, as it is your own happieness that is important and not our secondary precepts.

She is progecting her feelings toward marrage onto your choices. Where it would be the wrong thing for her to do, it may be ok for you.

I've just been writing about flaws in the strange situation experiment (don't ask) and felt the need to say that.

However getting married is a big deal and you should REALLY think about it, m'kay?

death_bunny510 · Posted: Wed Nov 12, 2008 11:58 pm Post subject:

How old is he? Maybe he really dosnt understand what engaged means. Maybe he isnt ready. It takes alot of maturity to be ready. Wich you have cause your seeking help on this topic. But what is he doing to help the situation.