Scared.....

georgia girl · Posted: Tue Aug 12, 2008 2:57 pm Post subject: Scared.....

Ok well I lost my virginity to my best friend and he asked me not to tell anyone..... but then I kept spotting like 3 days after it happend. I spoke to one of my good friends about it because I was scared and curious. Well he found out and I think he's mad at me. My friend thinks I'm pregnant and now I'm really worried. I'm supposed to start my period this week so I want to wait to get a pregnancy test. I'm scared that if I am pregnant and that he wont have anything to do with his baby. What should I do? Should I try and talk to him agian (I spoke to him last night and he didn't believe me)or should I just wait everything out and get the results in?

alx · Posted: Tue Aug 12, 2008 10:30 pm Post subject:

Well, to start with, i'd like to say that if you arn't using a condom you should take a morning after pill (which you can take up to three days after sex, dispite its name).

Take the test, but its results my not be accurate on the first test. Talk to him about it, because if you are with child he has a responsabilty.

Its natural you should be scaired about talking to him, but its something you have to do, sooner or later.

XD-bear · Posted: Tue Aug 12, 2008 10:39 pm Post subject:

i dont know where to start with the advice

... get a pregnancy test...

ugh..

georgia girl · Posted: Wed Aug 13, 2008 12:57 pm Post subject:

Well that's the thing..... we used a condom. I can't go get a test yet because I don't have a way to get to the store.

Now he won't even acknoledge me...... I'm so worried roght now that all I can do is cry. I feel like an EMO right now. x_x

alx · Posted: Wed Aug 13, 2008 7:15 pm Post subject:

Every 1 in a 100 condoms doesn't work.
This could just be your body healing up.

Why is he ignoring you?

XD-bear · Posted: Thu Aug 14, 2008 10:52 pm Post subject:

actually with durex i think its 3 in every 100

and durex are the safest too Smile

russianbaby7 · Posted: Fri Aug 15, 2008 4:01 am Post subject:

okay well dat happend 2 me my first time 2.. and its ur body...well insides healin... en u can get da tests just incase.. der will be other times u will need/want it.
also if u can go 2 Planned Parent Hood and they will give u 1 year supply of birthcontrol 4 free... before ur 18.

Has he talkd 2 u yet?

georgia girl · Posted: Fri Aug 15, 2008 7:17 pm Post subject:

He is still mad at me but I am not pregnant. He does come near me alot and it looks like he wants to talk to me but he walks away. It's like he's discouraged sbout something.

XD-bear · Posted: Fri Aug 15, 2008 8:23 pm Post subject:

who wants a friend who does that with you and then ignores you??

hes bad news, my advice is stay away from him

alx · Posted: Fri Aug 15, 2008 9:36 pm Post subject:

He is trying to talk to her. Sound like he is having a hard time dealing with his emotions.

georgia girl · Posted: Tue Sep 02, 2008 2:29 pm Post subject:

Well he is lying about us ever having sex and now he is going with one of my friends(the one that I spoke to about the whole pregnancy thing) and he has nothing to do with me. I said fuc* that cauz I am not gonna deal with someone trying to play with me like I am a toy. I know he still wants to talk to me(he keeps looking at me and walking near me showing off his little girl friend) but what ever. I don't have the time to deal with little boys and their games. Thank you all for the help..... if you have anything else to say I will still read it and I will always take everything said to heart.

XD-bear · Posted: Tue Sep 02, 2008 10:38 pm Post subject:

All you can hope to take from this is a life lesson really.....

because ... it wasnt really the best idea to do that in the 1st place...

but cheer up Smile

at least you didnt get your heart broken

georgia girl · Posted: Wed Sep 03, 2008 5:15 pm Post subject:

Well i do take this as a lesson and I do agree with you, it was not the best idea. Honestly I did get my heart broken but I am trying my hardest to get over him and everything that he has done to me.

alx · Posted: Fri Sep 05, 2008 5:08 pm Post subject:

georgia girl · Posted: Fri Sep 05, 2008 6:00 pm Post subject:

Hunny that had nothing at all to do with you, that was to Trevor(the guy this whole thing started with). I'm sorry if you thought that the statement that I said before was towards all guys, but it was not. My apologies.