Was I wrong???????

sxy_butterfly · Posted: Thu Jul 31, 2008 8:08 pm Post subject: Was I wrong???????

okay so heres the story;

there was this guy called Ryan, he was really sweat and everything and he wanted to go out with me. I said i didn't want a boyfriend until after my exams and he totally understood. He was a smoker and i said i didn't really want to go out with a smoker coz a) im slighty asmatic
b) my grandad died of lung cancer, no one told me so i never got to really say goodbye, and i would never be able to do that again because its made me feel so guilty ever since.
So he said that he would give up, which i thought was really sweat, any this was on a friday and the thursday after i decidied to go out with him even tho i was in the middle of exams but so was he, and at this point i had 8 left but he only had a few,

So we were together for about 1 month and got into a stupid argumnet, coz i asked him not to call me babe coz i just dnt like being called babe, He went of on one, and i was like i've never asked u to do anything, u gave up smoking because u wanted to i never said that u had to.

He then comes out and said well to be honest i never gave up, well i did 4 2 days, b4 we started going out, so i was like how can u lie to me, and he said that because i never relised it was opk no lie to me.

So i ended it with him because, he betrayed my trust, lied to me, broke my heart and made me cry and i just couldn't trust him, our whole reletionship was on a lie.

The thing is if he had come to me and said that he starting smoking again because he didn't hav the strenght too give up, i would have been ok with it because he told me. I just would have asked him not to smoke around me

was i wrong to end it?
was i over reacting?

his with someone else now, well a mate actually, which is kind of wierd but i dnt really talk to her

but its driving me crazy, is it my thought.

please help

tell me what u think

Aimz

p.s soz 4 it being so long

XD-bear · Posted: Mon Aug 04, 2008 11:31 pm Post subject:

your over reacting saying he broke your heart i think

but.... he shouldnt have lied to you and you should have broken it off with him

georgia girl · Posted: Wed Aug 06, 2008 3:05 pm Post subject:

I agree with XD-Bear completely on this.

rachiegrace · Regular Age: 18 Joined: 18 May 2006 Posts: 103

find some one more your type.

sxy_butterfly · Posted: Fri Aug 08, 2008 11:41 am Post subject:

He was actually my type, i like the way he was, i loved everything bout him, accept that he could be slighty controlling but we sorted that out.

And he did break my heart cause i trusted him and i dnt normally trust people that easily and for good reasons. and anyway his now with my mate, even tho she didnt bother to tell me about it, but i suppose we aren't that close

XD-bear · Posted: Mon Aug 11, 2008 1:14 am Post subject:

well... isnt that kinda a$$ish of him?

alx · Posted: Mon Aug 11, 2008 8:24 pm Post subject:

Girls, you can keep pretending that he should have been perfect if you want, but you are all going to be very dissapointed with your love lives.

If you expect him to go through withdrawal for you you should be there for him. Withdrawal is not fun, you feel shitty.

Maybe you asked to much from someone you were only going out with for a month and were not prepaired to go after.

I think that you two shouldn't be together, but its more to do with you than him.

XD-bear · Posted: Tue Aug 12, 2008 10:10 pm Post subject:

she said she would have gone out with him if he smoked

he lied pointlessly

pay attention, id expect more from a noob

alx · Posted: Tue Aug 12, 2008 10:21 pm Post subject:

I was paying attention, you missed my point.

XD-bear · Posted: Tue Aug 12, 2008 10:26 pm Post subject:

which was?

alx · Posted: Tue Aug 12, 2008 10:33 pm Post subject:

He suffered, she didn't give a shit.

Look at what they fell out over.

XD-bear · Posted: Tue Aug 12, 2008 11:08 pm Post subject:

how do you know she didnt give a crap

and werent you listening?
he didnt suffer!
HE KEPT SMOKING

dieselgirl31 · Member Age: 18 Joined: 25 Feb 2008 Posts: 19 Location: UK

If he can lie to about something like that what else can he lie to you about? u were totally right in what u did

alx · Posted: Wed Aug 13, 2008 7:13 pm Post subject:

sxy_butterfly · Posted: Thu Aug 14, 2008 6:07 pm Post subject: