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alx
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 Posted: Mon Jun 04, 2007 4:16 pm Post subject: Re: cant stop messin up...help |
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[quote="rachiegrace"]my whole junoir summer year is ruied bkuz of one nite....[quote]
| Quote: | | i mean its ruined bkuz of the nite i decided to drink an get a minor |
You don't give of the persona of a alky, do you.
And I like to booze, if I get into trouble thats my fault.
People who have a drink addiction more often than not have a underlying problem, normaly domestic.
You mention being shouted at when you are at home, but untill you state otherwise I will asume that you are being shouted at because of your "minor".
If you present me with more infomation then I might be more sympathetic to you, but on what I have now i'm not.
| Quote: | | d*mn u have no heart. |
You have no idea.
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rachiegrace
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| Posted: Tue Jun 05, 2007 4:31 am Post subject: |
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| Wut ever u dont know me and u dont know wut im going throu with my rents. ok my dad hits me half the time and all my mom does is sit there. ok u dont even know me i know it was my fault i drank ok but everytime im stressed its the only thing that makes all my problems go a away for a while. until the next day. and just dont say anythign else kuz all ur gunna do is say something to prove me wronge or some crap like that. |
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alx
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| Posted: Tue Jun 05, 2007 9:07 pm Post subject: |
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If you hide half the truth away from us how do you expect us to help?
You didn't mention your dad, what he does or that he is the cause of your drinking.
Now that you have uncoved the full truth we are more lightly to be able to help you.
| rachiegrace wrote: | | and just dont say anythign else kuz all ur gunna do is say something to prove me wronge or some crap like that. |
We're not trying to prove you wrong, its just from what you first said you didn't diserve any simpathy.
Tell us about your dad.
Why does he hit you?
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rachiegrace
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| ...well thank u 4 understanding. but yeh...i have no idea i guess im just a bad kid compaired to the rest of my brothers an sister to him. he used to drink. and now he just has anger issues. idk but i asked if i cud stay some place and he got all mad an sed no and wen i came home like ten minutes late i went to my room rite away and he went up there and hit me on my face and then dumped out my purse took my keys and cell phone and then he searched my car found a beer and a pack and a half of cigerates and then went back up stairs and hit me again for it. i didnt even know the beer was in there but i know i shouldnt of had any of them in my car..idk i guess it is my fault thou but its so hard to stop doin all this stuff. its like theres nothing else to do. i hate it.... |
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alx
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| Posted: Wed Jun 06, 2007 4:06 pm Post subject: |
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He seems a bit harsh. I would say that he doesn't want you to grow up and is trying to keep you his little girl, but that behavior doesn't go hand in hand with hiting you.
How hard?
You discribe yourself as a bad kid, why?
He hit you for being late?
I can sort of understand him hiting you for having beer and fags, the american system seems not to acknowledge your social independence as soon as ours, but he does sound like a bit of a lose cannon.
Someone put the beer in your car? |
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rachiegrace
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| Posted: Thu Jun 07, 2007 4:49 am Post subject: |
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| naw i wouldnt say he cares about me he just had problems when he was a kid and didnt do anything and so now he tries to control me and that just makes it worse...but yeah friends were in my car drinkin and must of left one in the trunk. aaand i think im a bad kid kuz well.. i dont really get along with most of my class in skool or my parents...and either my siblings were way smarter than me or they did some thing usefull like joining the military ..i used to have all these dreams of doin stuff with my life but now it just seems like im going no where.... |
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alx
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| Posted: Thu Jun 07, 2007 6:20 pm Post subject: |
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| rachiegrace wrote: | | or they did some thing usefull like joining the military |
Trust me that is not useful.
| Quote: | | naw i wouldnt say he cares about me he just had problems when he was a kid and didnt do anything and so now he tries to control me and that just makes it worse... |
He had problems when you were a kid so now your older he bosses you around?
I don't get that, but he did hit you for being late so he doesn't sound the most logical person.
| Quote: | | aaand i think im a bad kid kuz well.. i dont really get along with most of my class in skool or my parents... |
Not geting on with people doesn't make you bad.
| Quote: | | ..i used to have all these dreams of doin stuff with my life but now it just seems like im going no where.... |
Like what? |
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Hopper17041993
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| rachiegrace wrote: | | so ur saying if some ones an alcholic ur just gunna tell me theres no way to help them? d*mn u have no heart. |
Lads have physcially got hearts but admitting an emotional one is like, a crime against their existence or something 
feelings aren't admitted, its no use trying to get them to be honest about their feelings because in the end they run away pretend to be "hard men"
As for all that mentioned above, hun, you ain't a bad kid, in fact you're not really a kid anymore...
Stop focusing on the bad(easier said than done I know) and keep in mind that nothing gets better if you think that you're a fuck up, you got to have at least a scrap of self confidence otherwise you might as well commit suicide(not a good option - it hardly ever successful).
Everyone isn't your friend, people really couldn't give a shit about you and yeah, its hard but then again, life is isn't it? Strategy is to ignore everything shitty in your life(you'll think about it later - you can count on that) and power through, otherwise you end up in a rut and so, basically just make the best of a bad situation. e.g: if someone calls you a whore just say at least you would be able to get buisness if you were!
My mum used to hit me for being late so i guess i have an idea of how you feel...
And I ask the same question as alx: like what? |
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alx
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| Hopper17041993 wrote: | | rachiegrace wrote: | | so ur saying if some ones an alcholic ur just gunna tell me theres no way to help them? d*mn u have no heart. |
Lads have physcially got hearts but admitting an emotional one is like, a crime against their existence or something
feelings aren't admitted, its no use trying to get them to be honest about their feelings because in the end they run away pretend to be "hard men"
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One of womens greatist failures is there inability to understand the diffence in mentality between the sexes.
Another is that they think they know how men think.
You asume that we feel the same emotion as you do. |
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tupid_wabbit
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| Posted: Fri Jun 08, 2007 2:50 am Post subject: |
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| alx wrote: |
You asume that we feel the same emotion as you do. |
I'm starting to like you more and more.
No, not like that you sick bastard. |
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alx
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| If you were quoting tamo that last comment would be necessary, as it is ..... that comment is necessary. |
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rachiegrace
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| Posted: Tue Jun 12, 2007 4:09 am Post subject: |
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| thanks guys ill..try and figure out something |
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