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imconfused
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 Posted: Tue May 01, 2007 1:08 am Post subject: ADVICE |
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im kinda confused with my guy
lik i dunno wat i should do and wen to do it
lik i wanna reat my head on his sholder or hug him mostly cuddle or kiss.....but idk wen or lik if he wants to
how do u kno
what r the signs |
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XD-bear
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just be comfortable
relax
chill
the more youre stressin over stuff the more akward it will be...just go with the flow!
and remember its not all about what he wants to do! you account for 50% of the relationship so speak out or do...your thing...if its what you want |
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the_pudge007
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he's thinking the same thing
do w/e it is ur thinking chances are he's thinking the same thing |
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Socko Puppeto
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| Posted: Wed May 23, 2007 1:27 am Post subject: |
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| this is in the sexuality forum? hugging? putting your head on his shoulder... |
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alx
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| We all know why this is in the sexuality forum, read between the lines for gods sake! |
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Socko Puppeto
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| alx wrote: | | We all know why this is in the sexuality forum, read between the lines for gods sake! |
it's the idea of this topic. i can see asking if she should be having any kind of sex, but not this. |
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alx
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| Posted: Thu May 24, 2007 4:06 pm Post subject: |
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| Its the lead up to sex,she wants to know when to be intimate. |
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Tamonten
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| Posted: Thu May 24, 2007 4:26 pm Post subject: Re: ADVICE |
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| imconfused wrote: | im kinda confused with my guy
lik i dunno wat i should do and wen to do it
lik i wanna reat my head on his sholder or hug him mostly cuddle or kiss.....but idk wen or lik if he wants to
how do u kno
what r the signs |
Well...
1- The frontal lobes of the brain attempt to make a decision by deciphering the different options.
2- A decision is made.
3- The decision is sent to the spinal column via the nerve cells in the form of electrical signals.
4- The spinal column then relays the message to the muscles through motor neurons.
5- The muscles recieve the message.
6- The neck's antagonistic pairs of muscles work simulataneously to support the weight of the head.
7- The contracted muscles lower the head at a slow rate upon the deltoid of the of the other being.
I think that's how you would rest your head on his shoulder and I'm pretty sure a similar principal applies to hugging and kissing, too.
I believe I'm correct in saying that more muscle groups are used for a hug compared to a kiss, so I suggest you start resistance training in your local gym. Most gyms provide training programmes for individuals so just ask at the desk about it.
Training for the best hug can get pretty intense and not a lot of people stick to their regime, but judging from your immaculate spelling and mature wording in your post, I think you'll go far.
Good luck! |
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alx
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| Posted: Thu May 24, 2007 5:42 pm Post subject: Re: ADVICE |
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| Tamonten wrote: | | imconfused wrote: | im kinda confused with my guy
lik i dunno wat i should do and wen to do it
lik i wanna reat my head on his sholder or hug him mostly cuddle or kiss.....but idk wen or lik if he wants to
how do u kno
what r the signs |
Training for the best hug can get pretty intense and not a lot of people stick to their regime, but judging from your immaculate spelling and mature wording in your post, I think you'll go far.
Good luck! |
I'd say she was one of thoughs "aaawwww cute" girls.
As for hug training you need to find the right level for you, me and tam are on "Football hooligan after victory over local rival" hug training (You need strong bones for our setting) for you I would suggest the "lean over and ask how hes feeling" level |
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Tamonten
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| Posted: Thu May 24, 2007 6:27 pm Post subject: Re: ADVICE |
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| alx wrote: | | As for hug training you need to find the right level for you, me and tam are on "Football hooligan after victory over local rival" hug training (You need strong bones for our setting) for you I would suggest the "lean over and ask how hes feeling" level |
I dunno, alx, I think she has potential. Perhaps we should show her some 'you're a good friend, but I don't wanna hug you full on' 3-day split routines? For all we know she's already had some amount of gymnasium experience. |
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krzykool182
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| Posted: Mon May 28, 2007 4:11 am Post subject: well... |
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| CHILL...don't take things 2 fast. I think u should do that stuff when u feel comfortable and usually you could tell if you're comfortable with him. |
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caesarthegreat
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Most people have given the right advice: Calm down and slow down. Relax. If you're nervous about things and fretting what to do next, far less is going to go right then if you're calm and just letting things flow. Get comfortable with one another. Talk. Let each other know what you want. There is no right or wrong way to do anything. But, most of all... Relax.  
Good luck. |
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All you have to do is relax and just be yourself. If you & him are truly ready; it will just happen.
Maybe if you try to do it in steps. You could perhaps flirt a bit and then start making out, in your room or somewhere private, that would lead somewhere. |
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| well if ur laying down together lay ur head down on his shoulder while laying on ur stomach and put ur leg over him. most girls say it works. so give it a try. |
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