i get these urges.dunno y

Mrs.xxta.xclusiv. · Rookie Age: 18 Joined: 05 Apr 2007 Posts: 3

ok ive never had sex before.. but ive had sex dreams like everynight for a long time now and im wonderin why.. i can image me n my bf havin sex.. and wen im wit him(chyllen or juss seeing him)or even while givin oral 2 him.. i often think ok jumpin on him and tryin to have sex wit him.. and also wen i get the urges while given oral i feel like atleast puttin it in once to see how it will feel.. but im so confused i dunno kno what 2 do...HELP!!!!!!!!!!

Recoil · Posted: Thu Apr 05, 2007 4:34 pm Post subject:

What you've been experiencing is pretty much normal; that much I know. Whether or not you plan on "going all the way" is up to you to decide. If you feel as though you're ready, then, by all means, go for it.

XD-bear · Posted: Thu Apr 05, 2007 10:07 pm Post subject:

evryone gets theese but it doesnt mean you have to give in to them

Mrs.xxta.xclusiv. · Rookie Age: 18 Joined: 05 Apr 2007 Posts: 3

thanks.. but also u have @ think.. is my body tellin me im ready 2.. cuz it happens everytime.. i know its normal but i keep thinkin dat my body is tell in me 2 do so but im scared dat after havin sex imjma feen it all da time

XD-bear · Posted: Fri Apr 06, 2007 1:21 pm Post subject:

yes your body is telling you that it wants to...but hopefully youll let your head decide wether or not you do.
evryone feels like they want to but that doesnt mean its theright thing to do...

Nojoy · Posted: Fri Apr 06, 2007 2:08 pm Post subject:

It's very normal.

Tamonten · Posted: Sat Apr 07, 2007 7:51 pm Post subject:

The fact you've made a poll is stupid.

Embrace your primative feelings or die.

XD-bear · Posted: Sat Apr 07, 2007 11:24 pm Post subject:

kind of aggree...the fact that your asking a bunch of random strangers wether you should or not kind of means your realy not to me...no offence...i hope

seraphina · Lady Seraphina Age: 15 Joined: 02 Apr 2007 Posts: 10

i am 13 and i dun have bf but i do love a guy and want to be with him... though i never have sex dreams...

XD-bear · Posted: Sun Apr 08, 2007 10:35 pm Post subject:

people have different urges obviously and some have stronger than others but just because there stronger it doesnt mean you should or should not just based on that

naiani · Posted: Sat Apr 14, 2007 3:23 am Post subject:

those urges make having a bf all the more fun because then the time you spend together is more sexualy connected and i always thought after ur relationship progressed to where you do go all the way it kind of cant go any further and your relationship goes to an end. you have to be carful and know that its a nice guy too because som guys play by the rules "hit it and quit it"

Docta Mike · Posted: Sun Apr 15, 2007 1:45 am Post subject:

well this decision is obviously urs and urs alone to make.If ur gonna go for it then make sure u use protection.

Darkfay7 · Posted: Mon Apr 23, 2007 6:06 am Post subject:

Well, I had those urges aswell..and i didn't regret it after i did it. First off, It felt right, second, no pressure, 3rd i knew i was ready. No regrets while doing it either.

Might sound like your mom use protection....seriously..be safe dont want to worry and get nervous

XB · Posted: Tue Apr 24, 2007 12:45 am Post subject:

Everyone gets these feelings.

If you're going to make a decision about it, make sure it's a choice you will not regret later.

kaylar28 · Member Age: 16 Joined: 24 Aug 2007 Posts: 13