What should I do???

confused&inlove · Posted: Tue Mar 27, 2007 11:25 pm Post subject: What should I do???

my ex and i were dating for a month and 3 day b4 we split. she said that she would phone me when she is ready to start our relationship over again, even though she had cheated on me from the start. Brick wall

i had found this out later thanks to friends and her parents. well, since the split ive fallen for her close friend. her friend is attractive, caring and honest and much more. i want to go out with her but dont know if im doing the right thing, asking out my ex's close friend, and i dont really know what to say (when i try to ask her out).any help would be greatly appreciated. Very Happy

DiPants · Posted: Wed Mar 28, 2007 12:26 am Post subject:

go for it. i have to tell you, even though you lik(ed) her ( your ex ) you should never be with someone who cheats on you. plain and simple.

i've learned, (and i am a flexible person) that you can only give so many second chances...and ummm my 3 "Second chances" ended up as the first round.

the friend sounds nice..go for it

XD-bear · Posted: Wed Mar 28, 2007 3:50 pm Post subject:

deffo!
but when you do you should try to tell your ex first! not because she deservs it (which she doesnt because she clearly doesnt care about your feelings so why should you) but because it will mean something to her friend that you cared that much.

Darkfay7 · Posted: Thu Mar 29, 2007 4:19 am Post subject:

Sounds like a plan
You should tell your ex though because its the respectful thing to do. Event hough she clearly she doesn't respect you by cheating on you.

I dont think she'll mind though since she did that to you.

buuuut she may be one of those girls that want what they can't have and get extremely jealous and not let you be happy.

Go For It!

XD-bear · Posted: Thu Mar 29, 2007 4:38 pm Post subject:

i think f your ex says no you should still go for it and still tell her friend what you said and that you dont want to put a rock in their friendship but that you havestrong feelings for her and you expected her friend to be supportive because you want to make her happy maby.

annelizabeth · Member Age: 19 Joined: 23 Nov 2005 Posts: 12

Go for it, if you don't, you'll regret it later!!! Wish you luck! But as everybody talk first with your ex - it'd be nice of you.