guys... HELP!

noners · Rookie Age: 20 Joined: 24 Jul 2006 Posts: 7

okay so i have this best friend, hes been my neighbor for 15 years and we have had our past flings and fall outs, but recently we started having our old feelings but this time its for real. i invited him camping for 6 days a week ago and we had the funnest time, both of us were virgins and we gave it up to eachother,but now he is sayin that he loves me with all of his heart but cant be with me because his buddies wouldnt approve of it because of our past history together..so if you guys were in this situation what would you do.. listen to your friends or listen to your heart?? please help me ... I love him so much and i dont know how to deal with this!
Thanks!

I did what! At The Disco · Posted: Mon Jul 24, 2006 6:25 am Post subject:

honestly hunny

I really hate to say this

If he won't be with you because his friends wouldn't spprove then he doesn't really love you..

Im sorry

If he is puttig his friends opinion

before your relationship

Your relationship isn't that good

If it isn't worth it to him

And if it isn't worth it to him.. then he is a jack ass and isn't worth your time..

No matter how much you've been through

Now i relise that that sound very harsh...

But ive been through something similar

And i don't want you to end up like i did in this situation

jadeeyedgirl · Posted: Mon Jul 24, 2006 4:07 pm Post subject:

^^ I gotta agree. If he cares about what his friends say, then he doesn't care about you.

Wuz_UP! · Posted: Mon Jul 24, 2006 7:25 pm Post subject:

Live above the influence yah sound familiar

brenana710 · Teenwrd Addict Age: 17 Joined: 21 Jun 2006 Posts: 647

I hate when guys do that. They say they cant be with you because of there friends. Grr. But umm.. yeah I agree if he actually loved you he would be with you no matter what his friends wanted.

sexiibrowneyes · Posted: Tue Jul 25, 2006 6:56 pm Post subject:

okay look at this way if u had a past history mayb u shuld have waited 2 have sex, but u must have done it for a reason..ur im luv rite? n if ur friends or his friends dun approve then thats there problems, they are ur friends rite? they shuld understand n if they dont forget them...they r not the ones in the relationship

noners · Rookie Age: 20 Joined: 24 Jul 2006 Posts: 7

well good news.. i got some stuff straight between us two.. but we still arent a COUPLE! we just use eachother when we need the feeling of love.. lol! and i have a new puppy who i give all my love to. so i rarely see the guy anymore. so heres my advice to people who are feeling gloomy about being dumped or having problems with there mates.. get a puppy. they help alot. but make sure the puppy is yours. take it wherever you go, feed it sleep with it.. my puppy sticks by my side wherever i go and i love her to death. shes my pride and joy! im so happy i got her. and since i have, my mind is more occupied on keeping her happy then trying to think of ways of getting him back!