What am I?

confused101 · Rookie Age: 19 Joined: 08 Jun 2006 Posts: 4

I have a problem.I think I'm a lesbian.When I pass by girls i feel funny.I have a crush on this girl named Melisa .But theres only one problem shes my best friend.Shes a lesbian though.I need your help to find out if i'm a lesbian or not heres some clues.

I like Melisa.
I stil like guys.
I like boys and girls.
I have a sexual feelings when girls are undressing in my school locker room.
And I love Melisa.

Paindealer · Regular Age: 18 Joined: 26 Nov 2005 Posts: 146

have you ever heard of bisexual? Just incase you haven't, here is the definition, see if it fits you.

1. attracted to both sexes: sexually attracted to both men and women, or engaging in both heterosexual and homosexual activity
2. both male and female in characteristics: having both male and female characteristics
3. biology with male and female reproductive organs: used to describe something such as a flower that has both male and female reproductive organs

I think definition 1 is the one you are looking for, I just provided the others to be fair on the definition.

Suza · Posted: Thu Jun 08, 2006 12:14 pm Post subject:

Yeah, I think maybe bisexual.
Why not ask her out, and see what happens ?

bobina6991 · Posted: Sun Jun 11, 2006 1:08 am Post subject:

ya i agree with the 2 people above me
it seems that your bisexual
because u have feelings for her but
you still seem to like guys
and just to let you no there nothin
wrong with it, ya some people may put u
down for it but thats just cuz they are
pushing away the unknown

p.s just cuz i now alot about this dont make me
bisexual i just have a few friends that are
and there still my friends so dont worry
about so much Wink

Flaming_Oleander · Posted: Sun Jun 11, 2006 7:37 am Post subject:

I think you're probably bisexual.

mizzmae1547 · Posted: Mon Jun 12, 2006 8:40 pm Post subject:

yes. i agree with all of the above. i think you are bisexual. or you just arent too sure about your sexuality. theres nothing rong with it. youre still the same person. and im gald that you are askig people for their advice.

Guest · Posted: Tue Jun 13, 2006 3:28 am Post subject:

You're only bisexual if you can see yourself in love with both sexes. Feeling attracted or liking one doesn't really count.

HDB · Posted: Wed Jun 14, 2006 5:13 am Post subject:

how is that? isn't love about liking someone very much and feeling attracted to them?

Guest · Posted: Wed Jun 14, 2006 12:32 pm Post subject:

Well, you can like close friends but not love them. Then it's natural to feel attracted to the same sex at least once in your life.

HDB · Posted: Wed Jun 14, 2006 5:07 pm Post subject:

well i think confused101 loves her friend and loves both sexes from what she has said so i say she is bi.

sxy_butterfly · Posted: Mon Jul 10, 2006 6:39 pm Post subject:

ur probly confused, tell ur bessy m8 how u feel, or try n get hold of a girl, if u lyk it ur probly bisexual which means u lyk both girlz n boyz, or it culd be a faze

jadeeyedgirl · Posted: Tue Jul 11, 2006 7:43 pm Post subject:

Its common for teenagers especially to have crushes on the same gender, just because our hormones are so out of whack.

LAtina · Accomplished Age: 16 Joined: 28 Mar 2006 Posts: 202

well i still say ask her out ask her out!!(cues cheers)

brenana710 · Teenwrd Addict Age: 17 Joined: 21 Jun 2006 Posts: 647

i agree.. with most of them.. ur bisexual..

kayla220 · Posted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 4:39 am Post subject:

hunn i was the same way you bi Very Happy

and i would no i am and so umm sup with you lol jk