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Nojoy
The Zionist Enemy
Age: 16
Joined: 21 Jul 2006
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Location: Soviet Canuckistan
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| darkened soul wrote: | | why teens have sex is pressure from their fellow teens sometimes they make fun of you if your a virgan and their not |
thatz a stupid thing to say |
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I did what! At The Disco
Teenwrd Addict
Age: 19
Joined: 13 Jun 2006
Posts: 624
Location: San Antonio, Texas
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| Posted: Mon Aug 07, 2006 10:18 pm Post subject: |
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 wellllllllllll...
I don't want to wait for marriage for 1 reason
Marriage is so final
And what if after getting married and having sex and kids you relise its not working 2 years or so down the line?
I know divorce is optional but i don't want to live with my ex husband following me around
Id rather have sex with protection before im married then get marriweed have sex and then have it not work out
Ive been told before im AMAZINGLY FU**ED UP so don't waist your time telling me im wrong okies??
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Flaming_Oleander
Future Starving Artist <3
Age: 17
Joined: 18 Jan 2006
Posts: 2959
Location: Up your butt.
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| Posted: Mon Aug 07, 2006 10:28 pm Post subject: |
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I also don't believe in waiting for marriage. That kind of thing is usually said by preteens who think making love is the most beautiful way of sharing your love with another person Sorry, but I don't see what's so romantic about doing a little bit of 'this n' that'. There could be some romance involved, but there are better ways of expressing one's love. Sex is usually just meant for pleasure.
No, I don't believe in soul mates either.
I expect to get angry rants from the type I talked about up there ^ and maybe a few older members who still think love is one big fairy tale. Yes, love is one of, if not, the best thing that could happen to a person...but seriously, get your head out of the clouds and face reality once in awhile, ne? Not an order, just a suggestion. |
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| Posted: Tue Aug 08, 2006 12:45 pm Post subject: |
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| I just don't believe in making comments like 'I'll never have sex before marriage' out loud because you never know. I used to be strict on my beliefs that gay marriage was wrong and abortion should be illegal, but then I guess you can kind of say that I woke up and realized the world has more colors than black and white. |
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jadeeyedgirl
La Ramera
Age: 19
Joined: 06 Jun 2006
Posts: 550
Location: P-Town, Michigan
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| Posted: Wed Aug 09, 2006 2:36 am Post subject: |
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| Flaming_Oleander wrote: | I also don't believe in waiting for marriage. That kind of thing is usually said by preteens who think making love is the most beautiful way of sharing your love with another person Sorry, but I don't see what's so romantic about doing a little bit of 'this n' that'. There could be some romance involved, but there are better ways of expressing one's love. Sex is usually just meant for pleasure.
No, I don't believe in soul mates either.
I expect to get angry rants from the type I talked about up there ^ and maybe a few older members who still think love is one big fairy tale. Yes, love is one of, if not, the best thing that could happen to a person...but seriously, get your head out of the clouds and face reality once in awhile, ne? Not an order, just a suggestion. |
Pessimism much?
Love isn't one big fairy tale. Its painful, difficult, and sucky. But that doesn't mean you have to be a whore and screw the first person that comes around. |
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Flaming_Oleander
Future Starving Artist <3
Age: 17
Joined: 18 Jan 2006
Posts: 2959
Location: Up your butt.
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| Posted: Wed Aug 09, 2006 3:06 am Post subject: |
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| jadeeyedgirl wrote: | | Flaming_Oleander wrote: | I also don't believe in waiting for marriage. That kind of thing is usually said by preteens who think making love is the most beautiful way of sharing your love with another person Sorry, but I don't see what's so romantic about doing a little bit of 'this n' that'. There could be some romance involved, but there are better ways of expressing one's love. Sex is usually just meant for pleasure.
No, I don't believe in soul mates either.
I expect to get angry rants from the type I talked about up there ^ and maybe a few older members who still think love is one big fairy tale. Yes, love is one of, if not, the best thing that could happen to a person...but seriously, get your head out of the clouds and face reality once in awhile, ne? Not an order, just a suggestion. |
Pessimism much?
Love isn't one big fairy tale. Its painful, difficult, and sucky. But that doesn't mean you have to be a ****** and screw the first person that comes around. |
No, actually I'm very optimistic. This is just my personal view on sex. I never said I approved of people being a whore and having sex with multiple partners for fun. I also think you missed the fact that I never completely put down love. I'm just the kind of person that accepts the fact that love isn't always perfect, and to expect ups and downs. I wouldn't call that pessimistic. There are many people who are able to have long lasting relationships and don't want to get married. Does that mean that those who don't prefer marriage can't have a sexual relationship with their partner? No. As long as you're cautious and use protection, you don't have to be married. I wouldn't advise doing it within a few weeks of dating, but otherwise I don't see the problem. |
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jadeeyedgirl
La Ramera
Age: 19
Joined: 06 Jun 2006
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Location: P-Town, Michigan
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| Posted: Wed Aug 09, 2006 3:15 am Post subject: |
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It all depends on your point of view.
I think if people have morals, they wait. If they don't, then they don't. |
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Darkfay7
recklessly hurting insanely loving you
Age: 18
Joined: 01 Aug 2006
Posts: 89
Location: USA
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| Posted: Wed Aug 09, 2006 3:56 am Post subject: |
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Personally I dont want to wait for Marriage. im currently a virgin and im not waiting for the right on with someone im dating. Cause first of all
I'm young and if i find the "right one" its not gonna last forever and my heart will be emotionally attached and sexually.
If i wait til marriage and finally have i might regret it knowing i could of had more chances with this and enjoyed my older teen years to have fun. Not saying im gonna sleep around but tot have fun with my guy friends who car and respect me.
I'm waiting for someone i know a long time even if we are dating or not who respects me and no matter what will always be there for me forever.
I dont know if im crazy or maybe things wont work out perfect like i expect but i am waiting for lvoe in general for someone i truely car about and cares for me. |
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Nojoy
The Zionist Enemy
Age: 16
Joined: 21 Jul 2006
Posts: 1123
Location: Soviet Canuckistan
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| Posted: Wed Aug 09, 2006 4:48 am Post subject: |
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| k why does everyone relate sex to the love of their life? |
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Nomi
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| Posted: Thu Aug 10, 2006 7:29 am Post subject: |
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| yeah. just havent met a guy i feel i would do it with. so waiting till i feel like it. |
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seraphina
Lady Seraphina
Age: 15
Joined: 02 Apr 2007
Posts: 10
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| Posted: Mon Apr 02, 2007 12:01 pm Post subject: |
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| Yes i am a virgin...and plan to remain so till marriage... |
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Recoil
World Violation
Age: 18
Joined: 05 Apr 2007
Posts: 31
Location: somewhere in the USA...
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| Posted: Thu Apr 05, 2007 4:29 pm Post subject: |
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| I'm saving myself for marriage. |
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AJ
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Age: 16
Joined: 08 Apr 2007
Posts: 2
Location: Tucson,AZ
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| Posted: Sun Apr 08, 2007 12:48 am Post subject: Re: Virgin? |
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i am new
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AJ
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Age: 16
Joined: 08 Apr 2007
Posts: 2
Location: Tucson,AZ
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| Posted: Sun Apr 08, 2007 12:49 am Post subject: Re: Virgin? |
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| i am a virgin to but i am not saving it for marriage, i want to do it soon or at least before i get out of high school |
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tupid_wabbit
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Age: 16
Joined: 23 Mar 2007
Posts: 87
Location: Toronto, Canada
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| Posted: Sun Apr 08, 2007 1:24 am Post subject: |
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| I am a virgin. I'll wait until I've found the right girl. Even if it take 30 years. |
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