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Graffitit Thug
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yea... uhmmm... can i get more advice plz?  |
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Eileen_Saosin
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| Posted: Sun Apr 16, 2006 11:02 pm Post subject: |
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dude i think you should move on
cuz if she told you already
i dont think she'll change her answer
or maybe she would but... just move on
i know its hard but she probaly has a bf
she loves |
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Graffitit Thug
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| Posted: Sun Apr 16, 2006 11:07 pm Post subject: |
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| she doesn't... i'd think i'd b one of the 1st 2 noe if she did... |
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Eileen_Saosin
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| Posted: Sun Apr 16, 2006 11:21 pm Post subject: |
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| Graffitit Thug wrote: | | she doesn't... i'd think i'd b one of the 1st 2 noe if she did... |
thats true you wold of been the 1st one to know
but really move on if she told you she wants to be
your friend you should respect that, cuz imagine she would of dis you after your told her that, it would of been painful for you so just be her friend |
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Graffitit Thug
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| Posted: Sun Apr 16, 2006 11:26 pm Post subject: |
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| thats wut i've been trying 2 do. i haven't spoken about it in a long time |
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| Posted: Mon Apr 17, 2006 3:54 am Post subject: |
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One of my boyfriend's friends wanted to hook up with this girl and most guessed that they would date (I made the mistake of thinking that they were dating), but she kept on insisting that she didn't like him that way. Well, a month or two ago, they started dating.
As for your situation personally, here are some questions that might be able to help you.
1. Are you willing to wait for her to come around? You may find someone else if you move on that will, but then moving on might mean that you'd miss the chance with her.
2. Is dealing with her one friend worth it? If it comes down to her and you, which is she willing to choose?
3. Is the situation fair? Is it fair to her that you are waiting for her to change her mind? Is it fair for you to wait on the chance she might change her mind?
4. Can she like someone else? A friend of mine liked me, but I actually liked one of his best friends. I didn't want to offend him so I didn't tell him.
Just some quick questions, but don't think too much on them. |
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Dark_Fire16
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| Posted: Mon Apr 17, 2006 11:46 pm Post subject: |
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Well, im a girl and if a boy liked me and i didnt like him as much as he liked me. I would just want to know if their going to understand that, but still be there for me. But i would want to see that the boy at least trys and i would give him a chance. Ive had the same situation with a boy, and well, we're REALLY good friends. And after being friends with him for a while we went out. Of course it only lasted 3 days, we still stayed good friends. And thats truly important. So the best you can do is be her friend, be there for her, and let her know you care about her.
You never know, she might turn out to care for you the same way back.It just may take time. 
Good luck hun  |
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j-d
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| Posted: Tue Apr 18, 2006 8:44 pm Post subject: Confused |
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Ok there's this girl that i like in my class and she's really cute,funny,and smart but I don't know how to talk to her I can barely say hi to her and it's getting really old what should I do? 
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Graffitit Thug
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| Posted: Fri Apr 21, 2006 2:45 am Post subject: |
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| Asriya wrote: | One of my boyfriend's friends wanted to hook up with this girl and most guessed that they would date (I made the mistake of thinking that they were dating), but she kept on insisting that she didn't like him that way. Well, a month or two ago, they started dating.
As for your situation personally, here are some questions that might be able to help you.
1. Are you willing to wait for her to come around? You may find someone else if you move on that will, but then moving on might mean that you'd miss the chance with her.
2. Is dealing with her one friend worth it? If it comes down to her and you, which is she willing to choose?
3. Is the situation fair? Is it fair to her that you are waiting for her to change her mind? Is it fair for you to wait on the chance she might change her mind?
4. Can she like someone else? A friend of mine liked me, but I actually liked one of his best friends. I didn't want to offend him so I didn't tell him.
Just some quick questions, but don't think too much on them. |
1. I'm willing 2 wait forever 4 her... she's the only one that i've ever liked like this before. she makes me feel like i have butterflies in my stomach every time i talk 2 her. and moving on isn't that easy. i think she's perfect she's cute, funny, the kindest person i have ever met understanding and confident. she always speaks her mind and always tries 2 cheer people up when they're down.
2. Yea she doesn't bother me anymore. because Grace told her 2 calm down cause she knew she was bothering me. (she stood up for me against one of her best friends) but i'm trying not 2 speak with her cause i don't wanna start this feud anymore. and about who's side would she take is actually dependended on what it's about she'll always pick what she thinks is right.
3.Like I said i don't talk 2 her about it anymore (she knows i still like her because i still flirt with her alot even though i dont SAY anything) and i think she's comfortrable with it because she and i always have conversations and fun with each other. I really dont like anyone else in the school and practically everyone knows who i am because im always hanging out at school if it's either checking up on all the teachers (just 2 interrupt  lol) or sports. im the niice kid everyone knows and has a good personality and i'm friends with everyone not depending on how kool they r but how they act. (i never judge a book by it's cover!!!) and i don't like anyone as much as her.
4. of course she can like someone else. it's her life not mine. i can't make choises for her. she did like someone else. he was a jerk at sometimes. i knew him since kindergarden and he's a good friend but not a good boyfriend because all he looks for is sex and is kinda perverted. i think she stopped liking him because he went out with someone else and dumped her right after they did it. unless i think they did. she told me. and my friend really loved him but like i said he doesn't mean everything he says. |
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Flaming_Oleander
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| Graffiti Thug is that you in that picture? You look very familiar...or at least very similar to someone I've seen before. |
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megamanexe169
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| Posted: Fri Apr 21, 2006 3:38 pm Post subject: |
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| u've seen every1 flame lol |
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| Posted: Fri Apr 21, 2006 4:07 pm Post subject: |
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| Actually, I thought the same thing when I saw the picture. |
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| Posted: Fri Apr 21, 2006 4:41 pm Post subject: |
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| when the time come you'll know it don't rush to move on to quick but dont stay on her for to long |
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Graffitit Thug
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| Posted: Sat Apr 22, 2006 12:17 am Post subject: |
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| Flaming_Oleander wrote: | | Graffiti Thug is that you in that picture? You look very familiar...or at least very similar to someone I've seen before. |
idk? but i have been 2 illinois b4 |
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| Posted: Sat Apr 22, 2006 4:09 am Post subject: |
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| I forget, but did she make it clear that she'd never date you? I just remember one kid who said that he would wait for me and my boyfriend to break up and I flipped out on him. You seem to be a nice guy, so I don't know if that's the case. |
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