Right age to have a kid

*Mental* · Posted: Tue Apr 04, 2006 7:32 pm Post subject:

My parents told me that I had to wait until I was 15 to have a kid and when I turn 15 they don't care. I already have a good job and i'm pretty smart. But I understand what you're saying abotu waiting until i'm out of school.

thepenguin · Posted: Tue Apr 04, 2006 10:46 pm Post subject:

"I tried to kill myself 2 months ago. I tried to shoot myself in the head but the gun jammed. I hit myself in the head over and over again until my head started to bleed. The next thing I know is I'm in the hospital with the police around me and a bunch of doctors. The police were talking to the nurse and the doctor and when I tried to talk I couldn't. I don't know what happened. I just couldn't talk and then the police were talking about a rape kit. They thought that I had been raped b/c I was alone and they saw the bruises that I had on my arm and back from that guy in schoo.I don't know what my problem is. I guess I just find it pointless to live. But now I have the police chief talking to me in town if he sees me and asking me if anybody's bothering me."
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"My best friend Jenae got mad at me today b/c she saw that 4 cuts on my arm that I did last night. Then one of my teachers calle dme stupid right in front of the class b/c I didn't know the answer to a question and I was paying attention. But I got so mad at him that I dug my finger nails in my left hand. I didn't even know that I was doing it until I saw the marks that I have on my hand.What should I do? If my mom sees them she'll kill me."

yeah, stable...
and actually, i have a 6 month old son

*Mental* · Posted: Tue Apr 04, 2006 11:24 pm Post subject:

You're 18 and have a 6 month old son and you're criticizing me. Also, it's not my fault that I live the life that I do. I didn't choose to be born into a family that hates me. I didn't choose to be beaten and almost killed. And I sure as hell didn't choose to be suicidal and if you really wanna know, most of it is genetics. All of the women in my family are suicidal and I'm sorry that i'm like them. I'm sorry that i'm the way I am but if I were to actually have something to live for do you think that I would try to kill myself. I mean when i'm around kids i'm actually happy and I actually wanna smile. So if you have a problem with the way that I live MY life then you go tell someone that actually cares.

xxdeathxdollyxx · Posted: Wed Apr 05, 2006 12:23 am Post subject:

hun, I know how ya feel & all, but please wait a while longer because you don't want to fuck up your life and lose everything dear to you & end up on the streets or something trying to raise a child. Its just not a life I really think would be suitible for anyone are your age.

Guest · Posted: Wed Apr 05, 2006 12:47 am Post subject:

*Mental* · Posted: Wed Apr 05, 2006 1:12 am Post subject:

I didn't mean that the only reason tha I wanted a kid is b/c it would give my lifemeaning. I meant that I love kids and that I know how to take care of them. I am just trying to prove "the penguin" wrong. That i'm not unstable and that I do understand what it's like to have a kid and to take care of one. I'm capable of taking care of a child. I'm not gonna have one now!I wanna have one when i'm at least older than 15 and if it happens it happens.

xxdeathxdollyxx · Posted: Wed Apr 05, 2006 4:58 am Post subject:

wtf is wrong with you.
don't fucking do shit like that.
maybe some people actually care about your sorry ass.

thepenguin · Posted: Wed Apr 05, 2006 4:33 pm Post subject:

lol, u do know that mental posted that in another thread, not me, i was showing her how stable she thinks she is. and as for my son, i did not intentionally bring him into this world

*Mental* · Posted: Wed Apr 05, 2006 7:19 pm Post subject:

I'm sorry for that but I intentially wnat to have a kid and I'm not gonna have one now. I wanna have one when i'm 17 I think but i 'm not poitively sure.

sexie_dixie · Posted: Wed Apr 05, 2006 7:36 pm Post subject:

[quote="*Mental*"]You're 18 and have a 6 month old son and you're criticizing me.quote]

he's eighteen, an adult!!!! your 15 a meer Child!! yeah i'd say he has the right to critize you. Im not trying to be mean but dude, your 15 and what mabye a freshman in h.s.!
and you admited to being sucidal, do you really think on top of being only a child but being sucidal that you are STABLE enough to have a kid. Im just trying to find out why, you would want to not get a H.S. diploma to have a kid, You would be lucky if you survived in this world, and by the way you talk about your family not "loving you" im pretty sure they wouldnt help support you (being 15) and your child! and making only $15,000 dollars a year, will not supprot you and your new born! Babies cost money, lots and lots of money! so before you go making rash decions you should sit down with yourself and ask yourself, Do i really want a kid right now, especially if you have a life like you do!

-im not critizing you, im just trying to help you so that you dont do something that you will regret in a year from no!

*Mental* · Posted: Thu Apr 06, 2006 1:13 am Post subject:

1.I'm 13
2. I'm nto planning to have a kid now i'm waiting until after 16
3.I want a highschool diploma, I wanna go to harvard.
I have the grades and I have connections with some of the teachers.

thepenguin · Posted: Thu Apr 06, 2006 6:16 pm Post subject:

lmao,ur 13 and plan on going to harvard? u think they give a shit about wt grades u make in middle school?

sexie_dixie · Posted: Thu Apr 06, 2006 7:31 pm Post subject:

*Mental* · Posted: Thu Apr 06, 2006 7:35 pm Post subject:

You're kidding me right!

My cousin is 19 and she has a kid that's 3 now I thik somewhere around that age. She's going to Standford. So dont' tell me that you can't go to college if you have a kid.

sexie_dixie · Posted: Thu Apr 06, 2006 8:02 pm Post subject:

i didnt say you couldnt go to college! dude you are to damn young to be thinking about kids. go to school get and education, get a good job, get married (with someone you love) then have kids!