pErFeCt AND spontinaity

taz · Posted: Thu Feb 16, 2006 5:29 pm Post subject: pErFeCt AND spontinaity

An argument i have had with quite a few people is over perfection.
what do you define perfet as? i mean your perfect life,partner,house,job,friends etc.....
I bet who ever gives me their answers there will be people saying how is that perfect my life would be like this.........
Personally I dont beleive there is a perfect. perfection is something we all wish to have but when we receive something
or example we get a new car, there is always something wrong with it or we want something bigger and better.Maybe its just our natural instincts to pick out the flaws w/ eeverything. our main targets beinf ourselves. if i look in a mirror i dont tend to see the parts people comment on but the things i hate myself. my boyfriend constantly calls me perfect and although Im flattered i just feel like saying shut up look at my(parts i hate)

as for spontinaity. some of my friends think that spontinaity is a bad thing Exclamation

I think its what keeps us alive
one of my favorite quotes is life is not measured by the amounts of breathe we take but the number of times our breathes are taken away
Routines are needed but if you do someting different everyday or every other day then you will feel better and although it may not work out you will have new experiences which help to improve your life. my dad always says you should try to learn something new evryday.

what is your opinion and these two topics?

Raj · Posted: Thu Feb 16, 2006 6:16 pm Post subject:

i believe everyone is perfect. it's the ego that picks out the flaws.

queenbebe08 · Posted: Fri Feb 17, 2006 11:43 am Post subject:

hey!
i heard that same quote in my english class. but it went more like, "life is not measured by how many breaths you take, but by how many moments take your breath away." thats so cute! i 4got who said it though...

but about perfection. i think that the only perfect person is God. i think that we can always strive for perfection and become better but never perfect. only God is.

spon...however u spell the rest
i'm a more reserved person, i dont like too much change. but too little change is boring. i believe with change comes new possibilites and oppurtunities, but when things r going good i always hope it never changes. but its something u have to cope with though.
i once heard a sayin "The only thing constant in the world is change." i heard India.Arie say that. at least i remembered her!

Flaming_Oleander · Posted: Sat Feb 18, 2006 12:51 am Post subject:

taz · Posted: Sat Feb 18, 2006 1:23 am Post subject:

Does ne one have a comment on spontinaity?

Flaming_Oleander · Posted: Sat Feb 18, 2006 1:37 am Post subject:

Well, I agree that we all need some kind of spontaneity in our lives. Every day is different for my friends and I, so life is rarely routine for us. I'd like to keep it that way. Both the ups and downs keep it all interesting. The whole emotional roller coaster thing.

thepenguin · Posted: Sun Feb 19, 2006 5:57 am Post subject:

Jazza88 · Posted: Sun Feb 19, 2006 10:45 am Post subject:

Perfection is what you make of it. It all depends on ones views of life. For me there is no perfection, because no matter how good something is, our human nature always strives to get something more out of what we had and in the process ruin it.

taz · Posted: Mon Feb 20, 2006 12:42 am Post subject:

Thank you penguin, someone round here gets me!